Ever had a person you liked where, in the end, you didn't end up hurt? Probably not.
Unless they were your first love and they loved you back and you're still together now, chances are you've been hurt by somebody else that you had feelings for.
It's weird. Everyone gets hurt. There's really no situation in which you or the other person won't get hurt.
I feel like many people are reluctant or scared to get in a relationship with someone else either because that person would end up hurt, or the other person would end up hurt. Either way, somebody loses. So why not go for it anyway?
Like, for example: you're a girl with a crush on a guy and that guy has been hurt in the past by another girl, therefore is nervous or hesitant about starting a relationship with you, but he LIKES you. It's like...okay, well if you're going to tell me that we can't date because you're scared of getting hurt, then you, the girl, end up getting hurt. And if the guy doesn't want to get into a relationship with that girl because he's scared he's not ready and he might end up wanting to break up with her, so he tries to spare her feelings by not getting together with her, SHE still ends up being hurt. So basically, you might as well try the relationship out and if you end up hurting her, fine. Either way, she ends up hurt. It's almost a choice of who ends up hurt: you, or are you selfish and just feel that hurting the other person would be best?
And if you like someone, but think...oh, this could end up hurting me in the end, so you try not to like them anymore then you do...that hurts too. Love sucks. Any way you do it, someone gets hurt. No matter who you are.
Love causes pain but everybody gets through it at one point or another. It's just a question of is the pain worth the happiness you'll get before it?
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